on love: love exists. it does start off as chemicals. but those chemicals turn into a bond. a bond that essentially fuses the ideas, experiences and mutual understanding of people together. this mixture becomes "love". one could argue that it's simply chemicals between between people releasing endorphins that makes people "love" eachother. it's more than that. ideas, experiences, even language is a representation of the soul. the soul is what seperates us from, say, a common housefly. a fly cannot feel our idea of love, and it never will.
on fear: unavoidable but not constant.
on idealization: very bad.